Blogging Therapy

Recently I have gone through many blogs. Some of these blogs owners are my friends and some are not. One thing I notice is that most of people love to explain any misfortunate events onto their blogs in great detail. I have nothing against trying to relieve stress by blogging, especially if that certain person do not have people to talk to. When people around you do not understand what you really think or who you really are, scribing it to someplace is one of the way out. Come to think of it, I used to do that a lot too. As can be seen by my archives here and sometimes even from my messenger name.

I have talked to one of my best friends. He said announcing that your life is so miserable is idiotic. It is like you are trying to draw attention from people around you (This maybe the reason you have created your blog in the first place!). In return, you get some sweet and inspiring comments with certain degree of sympathy. And this is from my friend who used to have decease which prevented him from graduation. Though lots of people do not believe him but he never once try to clarify the matter. He said it is no point to discuss; excuse or not, if he cannot graduate then even if everyone understand him, he still got the same result.

I agreed with him in that matter. When you are deciding on something, people around you can criticize or suggest you. But in the end, you are the one who bear the result whether it is good or bad. So, sometimes it is no point to argue over some certain topic that is not related to you. If you win the discussion, nothing happens. You get nothing except winning satisfaction. This is important since some pointless argument can lead to quarrel or broken friendship.

Back to the blogging issue. I found that complaining through your blog is not a good way to both your friends and enemies. You cause the ones who care about you to be worried and your foe to look down pathetically. Either way, I see no good outcome other than to release what you kept in mind. Therefore, I will stop blogging about my misfortune and trash them on my friends personally instead lol.

After all, to live your life is fun. You should live even one more day to see the world around you. Even on that day, it will be your unfortunate day. The one you love may die or you may fail what you wish for. But you can also experience new things and watch your enemy suffer. Any way, it is fun to live. Life is not just a simulation game where you get the same outcome out of same action. The probability of what will befall upon you is limitless. That's why living is so wonderful.